Can I receive VA payments for caring for my mother?

I will add this note to Lynn's comment. AID AND ATTENDANCE is a benefit that is available to spouses that require 'attendance' in their homes.

THere is an excellent online website VETERANAID dot ORG that will help guide you through the process.

This website provides FREE information and allows you to review the information that will be required and help you avoid the pitfalls of applying for this 'hidden' benefit.

God Bless.

Information on any additional VA benefits should be available from your local VA counselor. Contact your nearest VA hospital, nursing home or clinic for a recommendation about who you might contact. Getting VA benefits can be a detailed and long drawn out process so asking your question directly to them is wisest.