Over many years I have visited her nearly every day checking to see if she was ok and if she ever needed anything. She was always telling me how much she appreciated what I had done for her but after 2 weeks after being in the care home she has said some things like "If you died , I wouldn't come to your funeral" or "I don't care about you anymore" The first few days in the home were good, she met new people and seemed happy. She turned into a completely different person. Doctors have said she is not suffering from dementia.
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If you are visiting your Grandmother the same time each visit, see if you can visit at different times during the day. I read here on the forums that when relatives did a surprise visit, they found their love one actually enjoying themselves.
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