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Annoyedtodeath Asked August 2022

What do I do when family will not take care of their mother and she has no income at all?

Son was living here but moved out, I and feeding, but disposable diaper, taking care of their cats, her son is surpose to help, but has only since moving out brought her snacks, and Suzi. What can I do, if he is not working and lives over 1hour from here, and daughter lives in Kentucky

Isthisrealyreal Aug 2022
Let's see, she 49, hmm? How about telling her to get a job and pay her way or drop her off at the furthest women's shelter.

You need to elaborate on the situation to get any kind of real help. A 49 year old should be taking care of themselves, so what is actually going on?

lealonnie1 Aug 2022
I read your post 6x and it still doesn't make sense. Move out and get your own place if you're unhappy with whatever the current situation is.
JoAnn29 Aug 2022
I thought it was me.😊

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JoAnn29 Aug 2022
Sorry, but I think you have left things out. Are you a roommate? The 65 and 49 yr old are not married, roommates? And you find you have to support her? She's 49, why is she not working?

Really need more info on what your relationship to these people is. You'd get better answers. If you don't want to care for these two, call APS (Adult Protection Serves). APS should find resources for these people.

PeggySue2020 Aug 2022
She applies for a Medicaid home or you do the work.

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