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Pack a "go bag" and be ready to leave immediately if the danger is immediate.

Tell husband that if he threatens you again, you will call the police. Be ready to follow through, because he will. Then do what you promised.

This is what a lawyer friend advises women in your situation to do.
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You have no information in your profile and not a lot in this question. (if it is a question)
Are you a caregiver for your husband?
If he is abusive in any way you do one or all of the following.
Leave the room if you can.
If you are being threatened call 911 (or whatever the emergency number is where you live, this is a world wide forum and not every country uses 911.
When you make that call say that you are afraid for your safety.
If there are weapons in the house let the dispatcher know. (If there are remove them if you can or lock them up)

If you are a caregiver for your husband no one that has been abused should be caregiver for their abuser. discuss option with an attorney. Either one specializing in Elder Care matters or Divorce.
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Like already said, NO ONE deserves to be abused or bullied in any way. It may be time to go talk to a divorce lawyer.
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No one deserves to be bullied. I’m sorry this is happening to you. Does your husband have a dementia diagnosis causing his behavior to worsen? Do you have local support from family and friends or a way to take a break when needed? You can use reply below any answer to provide more information
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Hi, and welcome to the Forum, Groovy.
If you have a question of us the post regarding it somehow did not come through.
Tell us a bit about you and your husband, and ask any question you may have; we will try to help.
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